Orgasm Handle

My fuck toy are going to be returning this week from becoming away for far as well extended. We’re each extremely excited. As the date grows closer, I’ve been contemplating the shape I’d like our relationship to take. We’re each kinky as hell and enjoy every others’ imaginations and different fetishes, but we’ve struggled just a little with how far the D/s need to go. I have a rather stressful job, so spending loads of time and mental energy supervising him just is not best, and it’s not actually what he desires either. We just like the idea of 24/7 D/s, but have decided to start using the bedroom and after that go with what feels natural from there.

To help me in my ponderings, I’ve been checking out other people’s blogs. I’ve located maymay’s, Tom Allen’s, and Thumper’s to become pretty useful. The latter two have a focus on male chastity (even though Tom Allen generally addresses other concepts), which, as I’ve described, is not precisely what I want. Even so, Thumper’s post on the bliss of only ever enjoying orgasm with one’s partner struck a chord in me. Fuck toy and I appreciate control, but I do not like putting him in chastity for also extended mainly because I delight in his orgasms and I get pleasure from riding him for ages and then coming with each other. In fact, for his impending birthday I’m going to create him come till it hurts, and that’s an extremely thrilling thought.

However, all of those are issues that he can do with me. He’s not going to become allowed to come on his own any longer. That is not to say that he’ll come any much less usually or that he will not be permitted to watch porn. Just that his orgasms normally must come about with me. Getting so intimately tied in with his sexual pleasure are going to be fun. Just as Thumper’s stated, I've no trouble with male masturbator habits typically. Masturbation isn’t a problem or anything. And at times, if I’m sleepy, I might allow him to merely masturbate beside me as I snuggle as much as him. But constantly sharing that moment will, I assume, be rather magical and deepen his submission.

Occasionally he will not be allowed to come, and there will surely be an abundance of times that he doesn’t get to come as quickly as he’d like also (I really like edging). Nonetheless, realistically, most days he will have an orgasm mainly because I delight in watching him in that moment. I enjoy his face, his noises, his surrender. It’s lovely.